Fondling (Sex During Menses)
Article: Sex During Meses (Quran vs. Hadith)
*The word ููููุจูุงุดูุฑูููู means then he had sex with me, and not he fondled me.
ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ููุจููุตูุฉูุ ููุงูู ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุณูููููุงููุ ุนููู ู ูููุตููุฑูุ ุนููู ุฅูุจูุฑูุงูููู ูุ ุนููู ุงูุฃูุณูููุฏูุ ุนููู ุนูุงุฆูุดูุฉูุ ููุงููุชู ููููุชู ุฃูุบูุชูุณููู ุฃูููุง ููุงููููุจููููุ ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ู ููู ุฅูููุงุกู ููุงุญูุฏูุ ูููุงูููุง ุฌูููุจูโ.โ ููููุงูู ููุฃูู ูุฑูููู ููุฃูุชููุฒูุฑูุ ููููุจูุงุดูุฑูููู ููุฃูููุง ุญูุงุฆูุถูโ.โ ููููุงูู ููุฎูุฑูุฌู ุฑูุฃูุณููู ุฅูููููู ูููููู ู ูุนูุชูููููุ ููุฃูุบูุณููููู ููุฃูููุง ุญูุงุฆูุถูโ.โ
Narrated Aisha: The Prophet (๏ทบ) and I used to take a bath from a single pot while we were Junub. During the menses, he used to order me to put on an Izar (dress worn below the waist) and used to have sex with me. While in Itikaf, he used to bring his head near me and I would wash it while I used to be in my periods (menses).
Sahih al-Bukhari 300 https://sunnah.com/bukhari:299
ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฅูุณูู ูุงุนูููู ุจููู ุฎููููููุ ููุงูู ุฃูุฎูุจูุฑูููุง ุนูููููู ุจููู ู ูุณูููุฑูุ ููุงูู ุฃูุฎูุจูุฑูููุง ุฃูุจูู ุฅูุณูุญูุงูู ู ูููู ุงูุดููููุจูุงููููู ู ุนููู ุนูุจูุฏู ุงูุฑููุญูู ููู ุจููู ุงูุฃูุณูููุฏูุ ุนููู ุฃูุจููููุ ุนููู ุนูุงุฆูุดูุฉูุ ููุงููุชู ููุงููุชู ุฅูุญูุฏูุงููุง ุฅูุฐูุง ููุงููุชู ุญูุงุฆูุถูุงุ ููุฃูุฑูุงุฏู ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ุฃููู ููุจูุงุดูุฑูููุงุ ุฃูู ูุฑูููุง ุฃููู ุชูุชููุฒูุฑู ููู ููููุฑู ุญูููุถูุชูููุง ุซูู ูู ููุจูุงุดูุฑูููุงโ.โ ููุงููุชู ููุฃููููููู ู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจููู ููู ูุง ููุงูู ุงููููุจูููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจูููโ.โ ุชูุงุจูุนููู ุฎูุงููุฏู ููุฌูุฑููุฑู ุนููู ุงูุดููููุจูุงูููููโ.
Narrated Abdur-Rahman bin Al-Aswad: (on the authority of his father) Aisha said: "Whenever Allah's Messenger (๏ทบ) wanted to have sex anyone of us during her periods (menses), he used to order her to put on an Izar and start fondling her." `Aisha added, "None of you could control his sexual desires as the Prophet (๏ทบ) could."
Sahih al-Bukhari 302 https://sunnah.com/bukhari:302
ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฃูุจูู ุงููููุนูู ูุงููุ ููุงูู ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุนูุจูุฏู ุงููููุงุญูุฏูุ ููุงูู ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุงูุดููููุจูุงูููููุ ููุงูู ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุนูุจูุฏู ุงูููููู ุจููู ุดูุฏููุงุฏูุ ููุงูู ุณูู ูุนูุชู ู ูููู ููููุฉูุ ููุงูู ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ุฅูุฐูุง ุฃูุฑูุงุฏู ุฃููู ููุจูุงุดูุฑู ุงู ูุฑูุฃูุฉู ู ููู ููุณูุงุฆููู ุฃูู ูุฑูููุง ููุงุชููุฒูุฑูุชู ูููููู ุญูุงุฆูุถูโ.โ ููุฑูููุงูู ุณูููููุงูู ุนููู ุงูุดููููุจูุงูููููโ.โ
Narrated Maimuna: When ever Allah's Messenger (๏ทบ) wanted to have sex with any of his wives during the periods (menses), he used to ask her to wear an Izar.
Sahih al-Bukhari 303 https://sunnah.com/bukhari:303
ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฃูุจูู ุจูููุฑู ุจููู ุฃูุจูู ุดูููุจูุฉูุ ููุฒูููููุฑู ุจููู ุญูุฑูุจูุ ููุฅูุณูุญูุงูู ุจููู ุฅูุจูุฑูุงูููู ูุ ููุงูู ุฅูุณูุญูุงูู ุฃูุฎูุจูุฑูููุง ููููุงูู ุงูุขุฎูุฑูุงููุ ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฌูุฑููุฑูุ ุนููู ู ูููุตููุฑูุ ุนููู ุฅูุจูุฑูุงูููู ูุ ุนููู ุงูุฃูุณูููุฏูุ ุนููู ุนูุงุฆูุดูุฉูุ ููุงููุชู ููุงูู ุฅูุญูุฏูุงููุง ุฅูุฐูุง ููุงููุชู ุญูุงุฆูุถูุง ุฃูู ูุฑูููุง ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ููุชูุฃูุชูุฒูุฑู ุจูุฅูุฒูุงุฑู ุซูู ูู ููุจูุงุดูุฑูููุง โ.โ
'A'isha reported: When anyone amongst us (amongst the wives of the Holy Prophet) menstruated, the Messenger of Allah (๏ทบ) asked her to tie a waist-wrapper over her (body) and then he had sex with her.
Sahih Muslim 293a https://sunnah.com/muslim:293a
ููุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฃูุจูู ุจูููุฑู ุจููู ุฃูุจูู ุดูููุจูุฉูุ ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุนูููููู ุจููู ู ูุณูููุฑูุ ุนููู ุงูุดููููุจูุงูููููุ ุญ ููุญูุฏููุซูููู ุนูููููู ุจููู ุญูุฌูุฑู ุงูุณููุนูุฏููููุ - ููุงููููููุธู ูููู - ุฃูุฎูุจูุฑูููุง ุนูููููู ุจููู ู ูุณูููุฑูุ ุฃูุฎูุจูุฑูููุง ุฃูุจูู ุฅูุณูุญูุงููุ ุนููู ุนูุจูุฏู ุงูุฑููุญูู ููู ุจููู ุงูุฃูุณูููุฏูุ ุนููู ุฃูุจููููุ ุนููู ุนูุงุฆูุดูุฉูุ ููุงููุชู ููุงูู ุฅูุญูุฏูุงููุง ุฅูุฐูุง ููุงููุชู ุญูุงุฆูุถูุง ุฃูู ูุฑูููุง ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ุฃููู ุชูุฃูุชูุฒูุฑู ููู ููููุฑู ุญูููุถูุชูููุง ุซูู ูู ููุจูุงุดูุฑูููุง โ.โ ููุงููุชู ููุฃููููููู ู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจููู ููู ูุง ููุงูู ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจููู โ.โ
'A'isha reported: When anyone amongst us was menstruating the Messenger of Allah (๏ทบ) asked her to tie waist-wrapper daring the time when the menstrual blood profusely flowed and then had sex with her; and she ('A'isha) observed: And who amongst you can have control over his desires as the Messenger of Allah (๏ทบ) had over his desires.
Sahih Muslim 293b https://sunnah.com/muslim:293b
ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุนูุซูู ูุงูู ุจููู ุฃูุจูู ุดูููุจูุฉูุ ุญูุฏููุซูููุง ุฌูุฑููุฑูุ ุนููู ุงูุดููููุจูุงูููููุ ุนููู ุนูุจูุฏู ุงูุฑููุญูู ููู ุจููู ุงูุฃูุณูููุฏูุ ุนููู ุฃูุจููููุ ุนููู ุนูุงุฆูุดูุฉูุ - ุฑุถู ุงููู ุนููุง - ููุงููุชู ููุงูู ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ููุฃูู ูุฑูููุง ููู ููููุญู ุญูููุถูููุง ุฃููู ููุชููุฒูุฑู ุซูู ูู ููุจูุงุดูุฑูููุง ููุฃููููููู ู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจููู ููู ูุง ููุงูู ุฑูุณูููู ุงูููููู ุตูู ุงููู ุนููู ูุณูู ููู ููููู ุฅูุฑูุจููู โ.โ
'Aishah said; The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) would ask us in the beginning of our menstruation to tie the waist-wrapper. Then he would have sex with us. And who amongst you can have as much control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) had over his desire?
Sunan Abi Dawud 273 https://sunnah.com/abudawud:273
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